Embracing Hope

The silver lining exists, if you look for it!

Pulling back the Shades…..

on February 3, 2015

The movie 50 Shades of Grey is planned to hit theaters on Valentine’s Weekend! Woo Hoo! Not. I along with some other 350 women are campaigning for folks to Pull Back the Shades on 50 Shades.

I believe this “mommy porn” or “supermarket erotica” is leading ladies and men towards a slippery slope.  Many argue that this is a “love story” and all the sex mentioned is consensual.  I take issue with both.  I don’t see it as a love story. Where is the love? The acts may have been consensual, but there are times that she does not want to participate.  In reading different articles, I noticed that the BDSM community is not even in favor of the books or the film, for the way the lifestyle is portrayed. No I haven’t read the books, so why do I care? I care because I’ve been there.

Let me clarify. I’ve been in situations that seem exciting, sexually, but have led me down a dark path that only God could get me out of.  I jeopardized my marriage and myself for pleasure sought elsewhere.  50 Shades and other erotica can open doors to various avenues of pornography, online affairs, and the like.  What I’ve learned is that God wants something different for us. He made sex for us to enjoy, especially in the confines of marriage, and wants us to have true intimacy with our partners.

This book “Pulling Back the Shades” written by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dannah Gresh, shows that we can be Sexual and Spiritual at the same time.  That those things we were taught as young people in church, those “don’t’s” shouldn’t keep us from having fulfilling sex lives.  When you expose your heart and head to those other images, it is difficult to make a true connection to someone and you have an empty feeling.

I am speaking from my viewpoint. it is strictly my opinion. I know what happened to me and would like to keep someone from making the same mistakes I did.


2 responses to “Pulling back the Shades…..

  1. kbailey374 says:

    I was at a sandwich shop last nite and one clerk said to the other, “You and I – 50 shades tomorrow night!” The other girl said, “I have absolutely no interest in that.” I was cheering her on – so glad she took a stand! It makes me nervous how many Christian women think this is ok!

    Liked by 1 person

  2. confessions1rst says:

    I am not watching that movie and I don’t think any one should. It has no real value, even for people unsaved.

    Liked by 2 people

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s



Pleazure Seekers

... getting the most from your walk through life

Lightwalkers Blog

Just another WordPress.com weblog

The Hot Corner

Growing up female in an Italian family.

Kent the Banjo Cat

It's turtles, all the way down.

lili's cakes

Pâtisserie Sans Frontières

Aging Gracefully My Ass

A sincere blog about a donkey

The Nerdie Birdie

Working off my adipose!

Walking After Midnight:

A Christian Walk While Living With Bipolar Disorder


Read it! 📖 Spark it! ✨

Sex and the Southern Belle

Sex, Relationships, and Random Musings on Life


Let's fall in love with life…all over again

Eternal Per{speck}tive

A glimpse at life

Jeremiah 33 Three

I will call to Him and He will answer.

Never Ever Give Up!

“You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice" Bob Marley

AngelaLTodd: let's get fun!

By a recovering helicopter mother


Musings of a 30-year old recovering perfectionist

Didn't Give Up

Your Life Can Change in a Minute...

%d bloggers like this: